Long Rambling Story of How Seporah Now Looks Like My Little Nerd

I should start out with a couple of days ago I was extremely freaking out. Now I’m still freaking out, but no where near as much. This story also really started a couple of years ago, well really a little over a year. Seporah has a tough time with eye contact to begin with, so we honestly didn’t notice anything wrong with her eyes until about a little over a year ago. We noticed that occasionally her left eye wouldn’t look at you when you she was talking. I brought her to 6 different optometrists to get her eyes checked out, each saying the same exact thing they wouldn’t check her eyes until she was 5 year old and no there’s not a pediatric optometrist on the island who does. After the 6th one (Walmart, Costco, Sam’s Clubs, and 3 private ones), I figured I better just wait until she was 5 and then I would get it looked at.

The past couple of months though it’s gotten worse, so I decided to just make an appointment and see if they would care that she was only 4 years 10 months. They didn’t question us until we walked into the appointment, but let us see the optometrist anyways. The optometrist very nicely sat down and talked to us for about 15 minutes, but didn’t look into Seporah’s eyes or make her look at a chart. The optometrist told me she couldn’t help us, but that she knew who could. Apparently what I actually needed was a pediatric opthamologist (hello, that would have been nice to know a year ago, they could see I don’t wear glasses and probably don’t know the difference, I’ve actually only been to an optometrist once in my entire life that I know about). So after talking for 15 minutes and not looking into Seporah’s eyes, she very calmly told me she didn’t think Seporah could see out of her left eye. I laughed and totally dismissed her, but thanked her for the number of who I was suppose to call.

We got an appointment with the opthamologist after talking to a few people, including insurance. Get there and I was informed insurance had not completed the necessary paperwork and would we like to reschedule until they could. I thought about it ($275 is a lot of money), but figured since we had been wanting an appointment for quite some time I would just pay it. We get in there and Seporah goes to read the chart, she puts on the special glasses that cover up the left eye and starts reading. She didn’t do so well, but I figured oh well maybe that’s just because she was only using one eye.

And then we covered the right eye, so she was suppose to read with the left eye. “I can’t read it, there’s a black spot on my eyes,” she said while pointing to her right eye. At this point I think I was breaking out in cold sweats and possibly hyperventilating as I’m remembering what the optometrist had said. She could not see out of her left eye. Holy crap. And I had no idea.

So what actually happened is her left eye has probably always worked very, very, very poorly and eventually her brain stopped recognizing it at all. So she’s blind in her left eye without there being any actually physical damage. And to top it off her right eye doesn’t work so well either (BTW, thinking this is why teaching her to read has been such a struggle).

Her right eye is 100/20 and her left eye is worse than 400/20. Her prescription for lenses is right eye +3.25 and left eye +7.5 (and a couple other things that I can’t understand at all). Apparently her lenses are extremely rare and difficult to make (please read very expensive). Steven had to go to 3 different stores before he found one that had a set of lenses (read “a” as in one) that could be made without special ordering. They actually called in their best lens crafter to do them on his day off since none of the other lens crafters felt comfortable doing it.

She seems to like them ok, we just said she was going to be cool like Daddy and we’ve totally hyped them up. I’m worried about how she’s going to do in school, ESPECIALLY in 6 weeks when we have to patch her right eye to try and make the brain recognize the left one more. Found this site where we’re going to get the patches, I thought they were pretty cute, way better than the pirate patches you can get at Wal-mart.


Like ‘em, she picked ‘em out with Daddy

6 thoughts on “Long Rambling Story of How Seporah Now Looks Like My Little Nerd”

  1. I like how Märia cropped just enough of Seporah’s chin so that you can’t see where the stitches were a few days ago. =) So she just got her first stitches last week from a fall at the sprinkle park, and then we find out she can’t see out of her left eye at all, and right now I am at home alone, waiting for Märia and Seporah to get back from the emergency room where Seporah is probably having a cast put on her probably broken arm. Not our best week. I’ll be surprised if Social Services doesn’t drop by. =) ugh

  2. Well, the week’s over and everyone lived, and Seporah is really excited about having glasses like her dad. Sounds like a cool thing to me! And, everyone gets to go on vacation next week…wow life is good.

    BTW: Märia what’s with the little nerd thing; my granddaughter is precious and cute; I would not want her any other way.

    Love Grandpa Russ

  3. Seporah looks so grown up with her glasses! I am betting the fall at the waterpark was because she couldn’t see. And the latest that hurt her arm was probably a result of learning to see with her glasses. When I first got my bifocals I felt like I was going to fall every time I walked down stairs. Maybe if she will let you, holding her hand on stairs and such would keep her a bit safer. She is an independent little girl though, so good luck with that.
    The bruises and bumps will heal and she’ll be able to see. Finally.
    Love You

  4. I think Seporah looks darling with her new red glasses! And aren’t you glad that you discovered what was going on so that you can help her? Sorry you have had such a TOUGH week – this must explain why there haven’t been any posts lately. Give Seporah extra hugs and kisses from us.

  5. She’s as pretty as a picture with her new glasses and I love the way they match her ear rings! Give her a BIG HUG from her Great Grandma Strong!

  6. OH My gosh! She is soo cute!, but I agree with Pam if there are questions about her accidents It is her eyes and you are taking care of that.

    Just love her!

    Also, Just to let everyone know, I now have internet service and tommorrow evening I should have a home phone.

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